The age of 2 years has been small so that you feel has carry toilet training (using exercise to dispose of toilet water). Since taught to dispose of urine in the bathroom, children are not using diapers from morning to evening because he can convey to you that he wanted to urinate. Ability to control the waste water also desire good enough. Unfortunately, in the night, the small still want to wear diapers. Perhaps because a lot of drink, and besides, you do not want to be bothered to wake up middle of the night to carry away the small to the bathroom. Will failed your toilet training you apply.

Perhaps, many other mothers who have similar complaints about their failure to apply toilet training. There are many factors that are the cause. Following explanation:

1. Too early start
Ideally, toilet training begins when the child has entered the age of 2 years. If you hurry before the start time, the failure can be obtained. Take longer and be more violent when the need to implement the program. You need to observe the signs, whether physical, cognitive, and behavior. The signs are already visible when the child enters the age of 18 months to 2 years. In fact, there are some new shows signs when entering the age of 4 years. Keep in mind, children have the ability and readiness of different, can not be generalized. So, do not get disappointed when nephew, son of a friend or neighbor may have more ability to control the initial waste water than children themselves.

At least, to implement the toilet training required within 3 months. Sportive and patience are required if you fail to apply in time on that. This can be a sign that your child is not ready. Wait a few weeks and start to try again.

2. Starting on time is not right
Avoid starting toilet training at the time that is not appropriate, such as a week before the birth of a baby sister, a new substitute nurse, moved home, or matters related to child routines. Preschools usually have certain routines. When changes occur, then the pre need time to adjust to new routines. Therefore, avoid making toilet-training at the time. Wait until the child can adapt before toilet training begins.

3. Never force
When the shows are small signs of readiness and interest to begin toilet training, do not force it to immediately implement as soon as possible. Can-can the child experiencing stress are marked with can not defecate (constipation). For that, let the small follow, and the toilet training program gradually. Most prudent action is still to provide motivation. However, when the children broke down, do not be forced at times.

4. Avoid simply follow-follow-up
Do not be affected by the story of acquaintances or relatives of successful toilet training is applied to the child. Every child is unique. May not generalize the development of all children so that the level appropriate to the age of toilet training. Most prudent step is waiting for the readiness of children. Submit it to the acquaintance, friend, or brother, “We already have a plan of their own toilet training program.”

5. Avoid giving punishment
Never give punishment to the pre fails to perform when the toilet training. Punishment could be given to making them feel burdensome and trauma. As a result, the child does not want to start the toilet training because the punishment will be. Must remember, every child is different, so patience and accuracy are required of parents.

6. Not consistent
When deciding to implement the toilet training should be able to be consistent parents. Exercise was conducted during day and night. Indeed, can not live simultaneously, but it begins with the success of implementing the afternoon, and then resumed in the night. Claimed specificity willingness of parents and children simply use the potty training in the bedroom.