Many women panic when the child himself, even though they are officially married. They reasoned, is not ready financially, parents stay still, or still want to do career. However, according to the dra. Tiwin Herman, M. Psi, the core of all the reasons why the couple is asked to accept more psychological. In general, there are three attitudes that indicated in this case, that is directly receiving the pregnancy; decline, but then received a pregnancy, or indeed reject the pregnancy.

This third category is quite extreme, though probably not the case rather than too many people who initially refused but then receive pregnancy. If it is extreme like this, usually in a sustainable effect until it is delivered. So, not only a disruption during the pregnancy the more weight, but also having problems so forth. For example, the recovery period is longer. Or, could a mother breastfeeding a little reluctant. “The idea since the beginning because he is a psychic is not ready. Finally, rejection can occur sustainable, “said dra. Tiwin.

However, trends in women in Indonesia do not up to such extreme levels. If any, may only count fingers. When the decline of pregnancy, usually ago he received support from the family to be positive, so that he will receive the next pregnancy. Then try to maintain the pregnancy as possible so that the fetus grow and develop properly.